By Minister Sonnie Robinson  (October, 2025)

The Ego can be one of the biggest roadblocks to both personal growth and spiritual maturity. It sneaks in quietly—fueling pride, creating distance in our relationships, and blinding us to the truth about ourselves and others. When ego’s in the driver’s seat, we tend to get defensive, self-focused, and unwilling to admit when we’re wrong.

But there’s a better way.  Humility invites us to take an honest look at ourselves—not to tear ourselves down, but to recognize our need for God and our connection to others. It opens the door to healing, wisdom, and deeper relationships. Philippians 2:3–4 says it beautifully: “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility, value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.”

How to Let Go of Ego and Grow in Humility

Remember Where It All Comes From – Ever stop and think about all the good things in your life—your talents, your blessings, even the doors that have opened for you? 1 Corinthians 4:7 reminds us, “What do you have that you did not receive?” Everything we have is a gift from God. When we see life through that lens, it becomes easier to let go of pride and walk in gratitude.

Stay Teachable – No one likes correction, but it’s actually a sign of wisdom. Proverbs 15:31 says, “Whoever heeds life-giving correction will be at home among the wise.” Instead of seeing feedback as criticism, see it as God’s way of helping you grow. Stay open to learning—from His Word, from others, and from life’s lessons.

Serve Without Needing the Spotlight – Jesus flipped the script on what greatness really looks like. In Mark 10:43–45, He taught that true greatness comes from serving others—not being served. So, look for quiet ways to bless someone, even when no one else is watching. God sees.

Be Quick to Apologize—and to Forgive – Humility shows up in how we handle conflict. A humble person is willing to say, “I was wrong,” and let go of offense. Holding on to grudges or needing to be right only feeds the ego—and damages relationships in the process.

Make Space for Prayer and Self-Checkups – Spend time with God and ask Him to show you the areas where pride might be creeping in. Psalm 139:23–24 says, “Search me, O God, and know my heart… see if there is any offensive way in me.” Regular heart-checks with God can keep you on the path of humility.

Letting go of ego doesn’t mean thinking less of yourself—it means thinking of yourself less. A humble person is teachable, gracious, and at peace, knowing their worth is found in Christ, not in human approval.  Humility isn’t weakness; it’s strength that knows where it comes from.

Let God shape your heart, one day at a time!

Blessings!